Nepotism and Nations
Nepotism and nations
co-exist.
Nepotism exist since ages,
it’s there in Ramayan and Mahabharat era.
It’s in human nature
and psychologies also “fight for survival”.
Two categories always
there dominates and other get dominance to prove individual awarded. All mind
games and community game.
Why nepotism happen?
Answer of this question
is that like minded people gather at one place they support each other. Odd one
eventually gets out of the group. Although that person is passionate talented and everyone
knows it that he or she is deserving but its time to take decision to appreciate
or award given to the correct person or deserving person without favoritism, soft
corner, talented one is loser and becomes victim of nepotism. Politics, elections,
governments, organization and Nations runs with nepotism. Small unit is family,
community, city and nations...
Film industry or any
actor is highlighted when it comes to them, they are social face but common man
faces it in all types of profession, where single one who is doing well did not
get promotion, not getting benefits and person who is 2nd best get
all the perks due to partial behavior, favoritism and racism as well you feel
in some cases.
Regionalism is also
brother of nepotism where people belongs to same origin place or same city when
they meet at work place they start interacting in their own regional language....make
bully or bad comments to the person who don’t understand that language or
belongs to other part to show, that we
are more smart intelligent and other way to portray the talent...manager and
leaders work on feedback. If someone forms good reputation in group then he or
she will flourish and other who is good in work not good enough with similar
wavelength of thoughts rated less and ultimately environment is build up like
that either person forcefully leave work place or they throw them out.
Either individual will
accept it or will be provoked.
What is solution for
this, nature and attitude needs to be modified for individual????
If talent is there then
one day one or the other organization will recognize your work.
Don’t need to quit as
common man needs to work for survival. If your turns come at position of
judgement try to be fair but some time pressure is from top level so you can’t
be correct decision maker .Do correction in next round if you fail in 1st
attempt.
Everyone not able to
control others actions and reactions so don’t impact or hurt by others partial behavior keep yourself calm and cool try to get in touch with seniors or
person who will listen you suggest good solution and patience is key .
Divert yourself from that
particular issue or problem which troubles you, try to be patient “YOUR TIME IS
ON YOUR WAY”.
Karma is key no one
remains in same state of mind for long time, sadness or happiness are “JUST 2
WORDS OF DICTIONARY”.
Best example is Indian
marriages whether its arrange or Love in both situation LADY has to accept the
situation, she spent 25 to 30 years of her life in one environment and then
adapt a complete environment Bride needs to be patient with all although situation
and circumstances changed for her.
If she gets panic she
will be in more trouble as existing members will not easily change for her so
gradually she make good relations with all, learn some habits and slowly try to
molds others as per her requirements.
End of story is everything
exists in world it’s up to you what you want to see.
Time is best remedy for
all pains.
Laugh loud think
positive.
Happy reading
Signing off
Richiiii rich
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Yes, you nailed it! So it's upon us how we take it, when we disagree or not in favour of situation then we are the odd against the crowd and when we are in favor of the situation then we are none like others spectators of the situation..
ReplyDeleteU picked very tricky topic to write about, and u nailed it as you wrote both the aspect/side of it. We really need to b patient about the situation and the way it takes us be it right or wrong.
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