Nepotism and Nations


Nepotism and Nations

Nepotism and nations co-exist.

Nepotism exist since ages, it’s there in Ramayan and Mahabharat era.

It’s in human nature and psychologies also “fight for survival”.

Two categories always there dominates and other get dominance to prove individual awarded. All mind games and community game.

Why nepotism happen?

Answer of this question is that like minded people gather at one place they support each other. Odd one eventually gets out of the group. Although that  person is passionate talented and everyone knows it that he or she is deserving but its time to take decision to appreciate or award given to the correct person or deserving person without favoritism, soft corner, talented one is loser and becomes victim of nepotism. Politics, elections, governments, organization and Nations runs with nepotism. Small unit is family, community, city and nations...

Film industry or any actor is highlighted when it comes to them, they are social face but common man faces it in all types of profession, where single one who is doing well did not get promotion, not getting benefits and person who is 2nd best get all the perks due to partial behavior, favoritism and racism as well you feel in some cases.

Regionalism is also brother of nepotism where people belongs to same origin place or same city when they meet at work place they start interacting in their own regional language....make bully or bad comments to the person who don’t understand that language or belongs to other part to  show, that we are more smart intelligent and other way to portray the talent...manager and leaders work on feedback. If someone forms good reputation in group then he or she will flourish and other who is good in work not good enough with similar wavelength of thoughts rated less and ultimately environment is build up like that either person forcefully leave work place or they throw them out.

Either individual will accept it or will be provoked.

What is solution for this, nature and attitude needs to be modified for individual????

If talent is there then one day one or the other organization will recognize your work.

Don’t need to quit as common man needs to work for survival. If your turns come at position of judgement try to be fair but some time pressure is from top level so you can’t be correct decision maker .Do correction in next round if you fail in 1st attempt.

Everyone not able to control others actions and reactions so don’t impact or hurt by others partial behavior keep yourself calm and cool try to get in touch with seniors or person who will listen you suggest good solution and patience is key .

Divert yourself from that particular issue or problem which troubles you, try to be patient “YOUR TIME IS ON YOUR WAY”.

Karma is key no one remains in same state of mind for long time, sadness or happiness are “JUST 2 WORDS OF DICTIONARY”.

Best example is Indian marriages whether its arrange or Love in both situation LADY has to accept the situation, she spent 25 to 30 years of her life in one environment and then adapt a complete environment Bride needs to be patient with all although situation and circumstances changed for her.

If she gets panic she will be in more trouble as existing members will not easily change for her so gradually she make good relations with all, learn some habits and slowly try to molds others as per her requirements.

End of story is everything exists in world it’s up to you what you want to see.

Time is best remedy for all pains.

Laugh loud think positive.

Happy reading

Signing off

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  1. Nice ..
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  2. Yes, you nailed it! So it's upon us how we take it, when we disagree or not in favour of situation then we are the odd against the crowd and when we are in favor of the situation then we are none like others spectators of the situation..

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  3. U picked very tricky topic to write about, and u nailed it as you wrote both the aspect/side of it. We really need to b patient about the situation and the way it takes us be it right or wrong.

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